Hi Dan -
This is the source I use
St. Lawrence Nurseries
http://www.sln.potsdam.ny.us/
They specialize in Cold Hardy trees and plants.
The NY State Nursery in Saratoga is really good for conifers - and some other trees - but their hardwood seedlings are very small and young. Many of my oaks from there just didn't make it.
The St Lawrence Nursery in Potsdam is really good for fruit & nut trees. I get grapes, rasberry and a few other plants there too. Its a little more pricey than the State Nursery - but the variety and quality is really good.
Good luck
FH