I skipped over most of the posts so excuse me if my advice has already ben offered.

I'm the king of broken hearts.

Been dumped a few times myself. Caught my first wife in bed with another guy twice. ( different guys)

Your broken heart will heel. You just need to spend time with family and friends.

I know what you are going through. Everytime you see something or hear a song you get that instant sick feeling in the pit of your stomache. Just deal with it. You can do it. I promise you, one day you'll look back and laugh. I was promised the same thing and didn't believe it either. But it was true.

I can look back and laugh about my ex. You'll meet another girl, just don't jump into a relationship. Date around. Its not fair to the new girl if you are just on a rebound. Just date until you find what you really want.

Just know that the pain will fade. It will!


Try to stay away from this girl you just broke it off with. talking to her just drags out you getting over it. The " Friends Thing" doesn't work. Trust me. Been there, done that. It doesn't work.

If you break off all contact, there is a good chance this girl may come crawling back. DON'T TAKE HER BACK!

Been there done that too. It won't work. You'll be on edge if you do. Always worrying she'll do it again. SHE WILL!

Get involved in something, stay away from her, get some new clothes, change the style of music you listen to, meet new girls.