son, i used to think a broken heart was bad - then one morning i bit a piece of toast. i was about 25 years old. i thought someone hit me in the back of the head w/ a baseball bat. i guess i had a cavity i didn't know about - and it just so happened that on this particular morning - the nerve was exposed. for 2 days - until the dentist could see me - it felt like i was locked in gymnasium w/ the fire alarm going off - the ones that go mmmmmaaaaaaammmmp, mmmmmmmaaaaaamp - so loud - that's what my tooth was doing. when i got that sucker fixed i knew i could live through heartbreak, and just about anything else.

i'll say this too. its not about finding the right person - its about being the right person - the rest will fall into place. just decide who the best you possible is - and start becoming that person for real - and it will all take care of itself.