Yeah this sould of been in the off season forum, but, I have been there done that too. We were together 9 years though. Didn't think I would of gotten over it at the time. But, for me in the real of it all, it was the best thing that could of happened for me. At the time I had a young son to boot, and that made it all the harder. I got threw it though by, going out every chance I had and traveling around a little. I just kept doing things to take my mind off it. I played the field for about 3 more years and then started getting serious again. Have been married now for 7 1/2 years to another lady and couldn't be happier. So lift your chin up and take a good look around things can and will happen if you take your time.