Hi All,
Thank you for the additional suggestions, I'll see if they have those at the shop I'm going to tomorrow or Friday. The shop I went to today didn't have the best selection, but from what I did get to handle the Glock 17 fit me well, as did the Springfiled 1911 (I know its not a 9mm, but its a classic so I had to handle it).
I'm trying to get my hands on all of the guns that have been suggested, I'm particularly interested in finding a Springfield XD to compare it to the Glock.
I'll tell you the ugliest gun I saw today was the High Point CF-38, butit did fit my hand well