RE: Remington 700?
Well, the first thing I'd say is that if you change your mind and get into reloading, you could probably stop your problems with the 300 with a different choice of bullet.
I guess for your second question, I would recommend the 25-06 for the applications you stated. All of the calibers you mentioned would probably work well, IMHO the 25-06 is the best of the lot.