Return the joy hatchet. You got a keeper.... so keep her. It's a two way street my friend. Do something for her she just wouldn't expect. You only live once and your time here on earth is tenuous.Telling her isn't the same as showing. Have fun doing it too. Love her to death. It doesn't have to cost money either with these girls. It can be something as simple as committing and taking over a chore for life. And don't you dare give her something for the dang kitchen.