I've never had problems gaining permission. I have lived in this area for a long time. I know a lot of farmers and they allow me on their property because I respect their land. Plus, I am one of the only bow hunters in the area. Most people around here gun hunt. I still gun hunt. But, I took up the bow a couple of years ago when I saw how much more time I'd get alone in the woods.

GregH has some good points, but, be careful going to a house without the husband there too. He might get leary & offended. I personally would go there when they are both there. Just a thought. Also, you can offer to help them in some way. Maybe put some sweat equity into the farm. I know some guys around here do that. They help the farmer put a roof on, or clear a fence row. It's a nice gesture and will secure your hunting rights for a long time. You get to know the family, and in fact, become a part of the family.