RE: Tough decision as a land owner.....
Wow, I cant beleive some of the responses you got Jeff.
To me, it bolis down to a few simple facts:
1 It's your property to manage as you see fit.
2 Your "family" abused a PRIVILEGE. THEY violated the family relationship, not you.
3 After you reminded them of your wishes, something you shouldn't have had to do, they dumped on the relationship again.
IMHO, a family member that screws you over is worse than someone from outside doing it. They should haveshown MORE respect for your wishes than someone else would because you are family. As far as I'm concerned, it's twice as bad as if a buddy did this and you should not feel the least bit guilty for banishing them forever.