thanks guys. my cousin wouldn't answer his phone (because he knew what was coming), but in my voice mail i stayed calm and gave him the ultimatum. i said 'look, you guys have hunted here for a long time and thats why u are still allowed to hunt. but there's certain ways that my dad and i want the property to be handled and you knowingly abused that' i also told him that not one more antlerless deer the rest of this deer season or they lose their hunting priveleges there for life. i let him know that it is what it is and if they screw up again, their loss.

my uncle will most likely be in his usual spot all day tomorrow, and when my dad gets home aound lunch time he's going to go have a talk with him. he tends to be more sensible and mature than my 21 year old cousin so hopefully there will be no more problems. we have never had one problem with any of the 7 of my dads brother except this one.