Dont worry. You arent the only one on here that took a while to get one. I got my first deer after 4 frustrating years. I missed my fair share before i got one, and most of that was because I didnt feel confident with my bow. I got a new bow that fit me better, and started shooting a lot of 3-d shoots in the off season, and it has really paid off. I would suggest to try some 3-d shoots in the off season. It sharpens your shooting skills and also allows you to judge distances better so have a better idea when archery season begins. I know you said you are busy but 10 days in the woods isnt really a lot. I am a college student and I have hunted every weekend except 2 since the start of the season. So try to get out as much as possible so you can pattern the deer.