sounds like u watched them way to long....you need to just do it...or have some buddys looking to take a doe come out and do it..forget about them...they arent pets...if u want big bucks and a good herd they need taken out...people watch bucks all year and hunt one single buck and have no problem with it..i dont see why its hard to take a doe..this time of year the young will be fine alone they really shouldnt depend on their mothers any way...take yourself as many mature does as possible...let the young walk till you know for sure whose a buck and whose a doe..good luck..it will be hard being you basically named the deer tat are calling your land home..try not to do that in the future it will help get over that...
good luck