RE: How do you use "the can"?
It's basically a doe bleat that works mainly during the three phases of the rut.
Calling with a deer nearby and alert is never advised and will usually spook them unless you're using a decoy.
I have had some good success using the can as prescribed by Primos:
Three calls 20 to 45 seconds apart every 10 to 30 minutes.
As others have said, nothing works everytime.