Before you can be a "couple", you have to be a strong "individual". If hunting is part of you she needs to accept that, not try to change you into something she thinks she wants you to be. Even though it sounds harsh, I agree with the responces you are getting. If you try to change into what she wants you to be, to make her happy...you are going to be miserable for as long as you are with her, and if you eventually have kids, you will still have to deal with her occassionally from now on. Talk this through with her and find out exactly what her objections are. If she is not misinformed, remember you have to accept her as she is too. If she "doesnt want to talk about it", she's a game player who wants to control you by "taking her ball and going home" when things dont go her way. If that is her responce, run and dont look back.