So I can't duct tape a grenade to the tip of the arrow? What was I thinking! With my work schedule its hard to get to go somewhere like that to get professional help getting started. That is mainly why I am asking on here. I do have a few friends/co-workers who are occasional bow hunters thatI will practice with. As for my girlfriend, luckily she LOVES Cabelas and Bass Pro shops! Once there we will wander for a while and then each take a kid and go our seperate ways. She actually helped talk me into getting it as I am kinda cheap when it comes to buying things I know I will be spending lots of money on.