Gus.... Time to relax. It seems you've got your skirt in a bind. No one has told you that you have to do anything... It's a HOW to increase your chances, if you want. You are not being forced. We do this for ourselves. Just trying to help. We know what kind of manhood wehave. Usually, those that bark the loudest, are the ones with the inadequacies. You sound as if you've never seen a mature buck.[:-]