I put the bow in a pro shop where I bought my Bowtech. When it sells,I'll use the proceeds to contribute with any unfurnished but needed items. Even better, if it hasn't already sold,I'll list it in the gear section here, and someone on here may want to buy it,and send the funds directly to this fellow hunter. That way more than one can benefit. And as for him being embarassed--absolutely no reason to. Life can be tough, and we all are in the position toneed helpe at times--just remember that when you are in a position to help to give what you can.