Caleb7mm,
Take a breath brother. I agree that the crap you are going through is a real pain and frustrating but all these people here want to do is help you. You are way out of bounds! Everybody has a opinion but that doesn't mean they are demanding you to do it. It's just advice through their experience. Do what you want and if you don't like what these knowledgeable people has to say then don't ever come back on here with a question if you don't want to hear it and figure it out yourself.

Respectfully
MD