I was talking to a sheriffs officer today and we talked abit. Primarily it will be for home protection. I may carry it with me on trips. My wife needs to be comfortable with it. I was looking a the glock 45 cal. What about ruger? They are a couple hundred less than the glock and the HK is the most expensive I've looked at. I think a 45 cal would be good but I'm worried this may be to much for her.Hopefully this is more detailed information for what I'm looking for. But I'm still not sure if I should go with a revolver?? If you could give me some pro's and con's of different pistols you carry/shoot that would be great. Thanks, --millpond