Stay the heck out of NC. You can visit but don't be a Damm Yankee and stay. If youdo you need to move to one of two places,
Cary - Containment Area for Relocated Yankees or
Clayton - Cary Like Area Yankees Taking Over Now

Seriously,It's way slower pace down here. I don't belong to any hunt clubs but have made a lot of friends since moving here. There are a lot of properties all over the place that if you meet the right people you can gain access. Social events like church, kids sports and town events are key. It does take awhile to break into the local crowd but they are great folks once you do.

Good luck!