Sorry Oneshot7 I didn't mean to advoid your question.

"good for him just keep him busy or someone else will and it may not be who you want it to but i bet you are happy you adopted him
How is he handicapped if you dont mind me asking "

Don't mind at all. I've been working with handicapped people since 1983.
My wife and I had 2 of our own children and wanted a 3rd. Her first two were C sections so they said no more kids. So we went through the necessary clases {After much prayer] and decided to adopt. This fellows parents were alcoholics so he has alcohol syndrome. ...
which includes
1.horrible siezures
2. great frustrations { labeled Emotionally Handicapped in school}
3. I Q is split.a, Has incredible memory and plays chess awesome.
b.Serious frustration level. Believes his Game boy was cheating him so he smashed it.
He can not be unsupervised until he's 18. So he goes where we go.After school he is dropped uoff at the local YMCA ,We got him a membership there.