Skeeter your to kind hearted. What It all comes down to is if you want that trophy deer or not. I think it was very nice of you to help him out as far as getting him started. Hanging with him for a day, Setting him up and coming back to get him at night. Thats above and beyond the call of duty. Your trying to help him out, but he's putting you against a wall. Tell him if he wants to go that those are your terms and thats that!!!