It sounds like you have the correct mindset and I hope you succeed.
Lots of closes friends calling to check up on me and spurring me on. My son calls and ask, you planning your fishing trip. He called the other day to make sure I was alright. I was at Lens playing with arrows. He said Great. Say hi to Len. Bye. I can't hang around this house. Everyday I clean up something in prep for selling it. Hauled a big load to the dump today.