RE: which tom do you shoot?
Usually, if I have more than 1 tag to fill, I will kill the one who isn't the strutter or the one gobbling the least.
Reason being, that the one gobbling is one you may likely call in again.
If you leave one of the closed mouth ones, chances are shooting his partner isn't going to persuade him tostart gobbling anytime soon.
And may shut him up even more for the rest of the season.