First off, DON'T buy equipment first...no starter sets, no flea market/garage sale items. Instead, buy at least TWO general reloading manuals. I would recommend Lyman's current reloading manual, and the book "Modern Reloading" by Richard Lee. Read them, then read them again. THEN start looking at buying equipment.
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