give her a picture of you and tell her to hold it if she haves to see you that damn much...sounds like she isbored ,or insecured ,or dosnt have any friend or hobbies to do,which in other words you shouldnt eighter..so tell her to stand by her man,when it comes to what you love to do,or you can always hit the bars and see how it really could be worse,and then ask her which one is the more resonible thing to do,or which one she feels more comfortable with???
i think she could understand which one is the better one.....(dang-gone-it)...