Alright Guys,
I did as most of the board recommended and just told her, again, how important this is to me and that she was going to have to get over it. I did it a little nicer than most of the posts asked for, but she got the point just the same. It turns out she was angry about a totally different thing with her Mother and took it out on me all week. Thanks for all of the advice. Kybuckhunter, sorry for the angry reply. It's easy to lash out when we are in tough situations. Sounds like we are live pretty similar lives. I also have 2 kids. I got up this morning and my wife was folding all of my hunting clothes the SHE had just washed in no scent detergent. I will be in the woods this evening and tomorrow morning.
Glad things are working out for you. One thing I learned when dealing with females is that 75% of the time their complaint is only barely related to what's really eating them. You have to dig down deep and find out what the real problem is,
and at the same time remain composed and don't go all off on her for making you play Sherlock Holmes.