RE: What cal. should I buy for my wife to hunt with?
Most anything starting with the .257 Roberts and going up from there will work well. The 260 remington and 7mm-08 are both fine choices. I'd stay away from the .243, it's not enough gun for consistent performance on deer. A lot will cry foul at that statement but I stand behind it. The .243 in the hands of slob hunters is responsible for a lot of wounded deer around here.