This may sound stupid but it worked for me. Though I have to admit it wasn't exactly by design. Recoil used to be something I cared about until I got serious about Turkey hunting. Turkey loads kick like a sonofstitch. My suggestion is to go to the range with a shot gun and about 30-50 rounds of magnum turkey loads and have someone teach you proper shooting form. Once you get through those 50 rounds successfully there won't be much out there you can't handle.

Tom