Congrats Pat. I got married in January of 04. We werent big believers in having an expensive wedding. To us, it was just like throwing money away. All we did was get a church, had the ceremony and and a reception at the Knights of Columbus. Thats what i like about my wife, she is so unmaterialistic, well that and she loves to fish with me and go watch the Colts. What more can you ask for. Congrats again, if you are like me, you will be most worried about how nervous you are going to be standing in front of all the people.A good way to cure that is to take to the bottle about 2-3 hours before hand, just make sure you give yourself a good hour to sober up a tad. Im one of the shyest guys around and i hate being in front of people, the man who married us told me i was the most composed guy he had ever seen at a wedding. LOL