I havent been married so I am no expert. I am going by what 70 women at school tell. If you can keep all that alive BHG that is great, I wish you the best and hope you can. I just have these women here who have been married for 20, 30 years and still love there husband dont get me wrong but they are in a kind of rut. THey have been all over to gether done everything together, etc. They tell me they get in a big cycle a routine, whatever you want to call it. YOu know after the honeymoon is over. Which might be 2 years 5 years or 5 months.