RE: weight of points / broadheads
Aluminum arrows would likely be a good choice. A good starting point would be 2016's with a 125 or 150 grain head such as a Magnus Stinger. Byron Ferguson has some pretty relevant info regarding set-up and tuning in his book "Become the Arrow". It's written with the longbow in mind but also pertains to a recurve. Good luck and more importantly, have fun.