If he spends much time on the computer he probably has his own email and identity. Either Hotmail or yahoo if he chats with others.
To be honest, if he is acting up, the computer would be the first thing I took away.
Yep, kids are dramatic for sure. I been a skate guard off and on from a teenager until I was about 30 or so. Kids think the smallest things are the end of the world. I use to tell them that this was the best time of thier life and to enjoy it. It really just gets worse from here on out. That really was not the answer they were looking for

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Paul