Mite- thank you so much.... okay maybe some of my problem is that i and everyone who has been around him the last few days has been playing tug-of-war.. ill put a stop to that right away.. im going to stick w/ fetch. i will get that dvd im going to check in at lion country supply and see if they have it. fact i think the breeder told me to get a dvd from him. again thank you and im sorry if i ask stupid questions, im just new to this and want to do the best i can at it..