RE: Getting soft......
This situation always reminds me of a sign I saw during a fly-in Canadian fishing trip...It read...
"It's better to be on the ground hoping that you were in the air, than to be in the air, hoping you were on the ground."
Or something like that.
So, to me, the situation you described is much like.."you can never go wrong deciding not to shoot..."
It's a long season.