Don't sweat it. It's SOP here and inherent in internet communication, you just got more of an education than you asked for, if you learn to read between ALL the lines. I just take the good advice, delete the bad. You've got some good, here's another to think about, it's well known but seldom given much personal reflection; "We have nothing to fear, but fear itself." Change the word we, to I, and give it some thought. It's fear your afraid of, not the dark. There's enough real things that restrict us from doing what we would like, tell fear to get in the back of the line and you'll see it when your done dealing with the real problems in your life. Don't let this one stop you, it's just not worth it. Lifes to short.