ORIGINAL: mossyoakshootout
Well...okay...if you want to go thru 100 girls the bar scene and meeting "as many as possible" is the way to go. But I think its a little silly to ask people out that you barely even know. And maybe I'm unique...but most of the girls I have been friends with eventually liked me as more than a friend....that didn't always work out too well but thats another story.
Which makes you a little deceptive in a way. You're being friends with these girls for the sole purpose of eventually becomming 'more than friends.' You obviously don't care whether or not things work out in the end, because if they were good friends you wouldn't want her to get hurt if something happened and the relationship ended.
It doesn't cost money to meet new girls. Our local mall is filled with prospective dates on the weekends. A dollar each way on the bus can get you at least one new phone number and a possible girlfriend each day. You don't have to spend money to meet girls. Dates can cost as little as $20.00 or as much as $100.00 depending on who you're taking out. But don't ever think you have to spend money to meet girls, because you don't.
Grocerey shopping with mom? See a cute girl bagging groceries or shopping with her mom? Bump into her, start a conversation, get her number, take her out.
You
will be told no. Don't get me wrong. Things won't always work out, you won't always get her number. But you can't just wait for the girls to come to you.
Confidence is key. You can't be scared or intimidated by the situation, approach the girls you would like to meet. Chances are they won't approach you.