ORIGINAL: mossyoakshootout
well... I may not be an expert..... I tend not to ever have a girlfriend because I really don't want to spend the money or take teh time just to go from girl to girl. But heres my advice. Quit focusing on finding a girlfriend and work on just being a good friend. If you have to go out looking for a girl to go out with you're doing it all wrong..that only works on tv and for vacation flings.... try to be a friend to teh girls you already know and the ones you meet....and the girlfriend thing will come on its own.
Not exactly a good idea. Sure, if you want girl
friends, this is the way to go. Go shopping, hang out, whatever... But that's all you're ever going to be. Generally, once you cross over to being 'just friends' that's all it's ever going to amount to because neither of you will want to hurt the other.
If you have to go out looking for a girl to go out with you're doing it all wrong? What? How exactly does that work? Why do you think everyone always talks about the 'bar scene' and going to clubs? Why do people do that? To meet new people.
In my experience the best way to get a girlfriend is to meet as many girls as you can, pursue the ones you like, and befriend the ones you think would be better off as 'just friends.'
Half the fun of getting a girlfriend is playing the field. Meeting new girls, flirting with differen't girls, and learning the do's and dont's of dating. Just because you take a girl to the movies doesn't mean you're together. Think of every date you go on as a learning experience and use what you learn the next time around. The more you date the more your chances of getting a steady girlfriend improve. How are you ever going to find 'the one' without playing the field a bit? If you just pursue the girls you're friends with you're going to miss out on a lot of fun oportunities.