well... I may not be an expert..... I tend not to ever have a girlfriend because I really don't want to spend the money or take teh time just to go from girl to girl. But heres my advice. Quit focusing on finding a girlfriend and work on just being a good friend. If you have to go out looking for a girl to go out with you're doing it all wrong..that only works on tv and for vacation flings.... try to be a friend to teh girls you already know and the ones you meet....and the girlfriend thing will come on its own.