For me the best rest is the Golden Key Futura Infiniti Drop away.... I looked at it as a strickly 3D rest.. but then I was so impressed with its performance at 3D that I used it this last bow hunting season to harvest every animal I took.. it worked Flawlessly I also use some black moleskin where the rest laucher arms contact the riser to combat the noise issue.
I use CXL 150 Selects and Gold tip Ultra Lite Pro 22 Series Arrows for 3D... both work great for me.... I prefer fat shafts for catching those lines in 3D ...
But as you said ( but my arrows looked to be fishtailing at 45 yards not sure if my arrow broadhead combo was right but ) This I belive is your 1st question you need to answer.... the best rest isnt going to solve the problem of an improperly setup arrow.
Tell us what your arrow setup is and then what your bow setup is... make sure you are working with a properly spined arrow and optimum arrow setup.... just my 2 cents