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Well. I consider everyone in here as family so normally i wouldnt tell this to the whole world but i believe in being honest. I told everyone in here that i was going to be a daddy and it would be my first. Well i just found out that the baby isnt mine and the mother-to-be lied to me [:'(]

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be glad you found out in time.you know for sure you cant trust her.

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Sorry about that man. I guess that it is better that you found out before you had to take care of the baby. Keep us posted on what happens. Good Luck. BB

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Damn! Sorry about that man, thats gotta hurt.

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Sorry to hear that man, thats a poopy deal.What are you going to do about her?

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sorry man. thats gota hurt. keep us posted on what is gonna happen!

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Sorry man, damn I was lookin forward to hearing the hunting stories of the little one.

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Well i'll keep everyone updated for what has happened. The mother to be and I were dating on and off for a year. We decided that we shouldnt be in relationship mutural anymore because it might hurt our friendship. She found out she was pregnant after we decided this but we still remained best friends. The real father to be is someone she was with for a short awhile in between the times that we dated. She is about 11 weeks pregnant and if it was mine, she would be only 9 weeks. She lied to me and told me it was mine but i guess her feeling bad or something made her tell me the truth. I was very hurt by this lie and i dont know if i can trust her like i once did. We won't be on speaking terms for awhile if ever again...I know that sounds bitter but once someone betrays my trust and/or respect, its very rare do they ever get it back. As i said, i'll keep everyone posted.

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i'm very sorry red hawk... we had a similar thing happen with one of my best friends... his girlfriend was cheating on him though... i hope that everything turns out for the better... i wish you the best of luck and you'll find someone better... i just wonder what her intentions were by lying to you........

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Hey sean! *HUGS* I am really sorry to hear about all this. It seems like we are both in hard times right now and I cant believe she sat there and lied to you knowing that you really do care a/b that kid and u would have done anything for it. Sean you are such a great person! I love you bro and i'm always here for you! Keep in touch, i'll try to email ya back tonight if i have a chance and tell u a/b josh.

Love always,
Jodi

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My guess is that she knew i was really excited about being a daddy that she didnt want to hurt me. In the end i am glad she told me despite as much as it hurt. I guess she felt bad about it and decided to tell me. And i am also sorry to hear that your friend went through the same thing.



And thanks for the kind words from everyone thus far [:-]

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That is heartbreaking...so sorry...:(:(:(:(

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Sorry for what happed. :(

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Well i know its only been a few days but i pretty much accepted the fact of the whole situation with her. My dad taught me how to be strong so i am, for the most part over her lie. But i appricate the support that everyone has given to me in here [:-]