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04-18-2008, 06:30 AM
#11
Banned
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Inside your Mom
Posts: 2,231
RE: I need Help agian lol
ORIGINAL: daddyshuntingirl
hey how do i deal with my best friend backstabing u,your ex that u r
still friends with being a really jerk and loseing your best friend
over another best friend being to coontrolling? can you plez help me i
dont know what to do i need help Thanks
hey how do i deal with my best friend backstabing u,your ex that u r
still friends with being a really jerk and loseing your best friend
over another best friend being to coontrolling? can you plez help me i
dont know what to do i need help Thanks
04-18-2008, 08:11 AM
#12
Typical Buck
Join Date: Jan 2005
Posts: 948
RE: I need Help agian lol
ORIGINAL: daddyshuntingirl
hey how do i deal with my best friend backstabing u,your ex that u r
still friends with being a really jerk and loseing your best friend
over another best friend being to coontrolling? can you plez help me i
dont know what to do i need help Thanks
Mary Harris
hey how do i deal with my best friend backstabing u,your ex that u r
still friends with being a really jerk and loseing your best friend
over another best friend being to coontrolling? can you plez help me i
dont know what to do i need help Thanks
Mary Harris
- call them on it, if they say they didn't do it and you know for an absolute fact that they did, then they are lying to you, and best friends don't do that so therefore she isn't being a true best friend. tell her you know what they said/did for a fact explain it to them, and you can usually tell from their reaction whether they are guilty or not.
-if you don't know for an absolute fact that they did it, give them the benifit of the doubt, after all you are calling them your best friend, so just ask them about but don't accuse. accusing is the worst thing you can do if your not absolutely sure about something. because if your wrong, your going to hurt them and your going to get hurt in the end too.
2) Ex bf being a jerk when you are supposed to be friends
-ignore him. respond as little as possible to him. don't call him let him call you. if he was being a jerk that day and he calls you, tell him you are busy and can't talk. if you ignore him, he will want to talk more. or you guys will slowly become separated and slowly make other friends, which as bad as it sounds might be a good thing in the end.
3)Losing a best friend over one thats being controlling
- If they are trulyyour best friend, they will know where to draw the line with the other person. Its great to have a bunch of friends, but that is when you begin to learn the value of sharing your time with everyone, or others begin to feel left out. some people have a really hard time with this concept and it may take a long time to overcome the problem. its alright to tell her how you feel, but don't begin to tell her what to do, or you will end up like the other person you are talking about.you just have to be patient and see what she decideds.
-CC
04-18-2008, 08:14 AM
#13
Nontypical Buck
Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: Darrtown, OH
Posts: 4,210
RE: I need Help agian lol
ORIGINAL: Canadian Chic
1)Best friend backstabbing you
- call them on it, if they say they didn't do it and you know for an absolute fact that they did, then they are lying to you, and best friends don't do that so therefore she isn't being a true best friend. tell her you know what they said/did for a fact explain it to them, and you can usually tell from their reaction whether they are guilty or not.
-if you don't know for an absolute fact that they did it, give them the benifit of the doubt, after all you are calling them your best friend, so just ask them about but don't accuse. accusing is the worst thing you can do if your not absolutely sure about something. because if your wrong, your going to hurt them and your going to get hurt in the end too.
2) Ex bf being a jerk when you are supposed to be friends
-ignore him. respond as little as possible to him. don't call him let him call you. if he was being a jerk that day and he calls you, tell him you are busy and can't talk. if you ignore him, he will want to talk more. or you guys will slowly become separated and slowly make other friends, which as bad as it sounds might be a good thing in the end.
3)Losing a best friend over one thats being controlling
- If they are trulyyour best friend, they will know where to draw the line with the other person. Its great to have a bunch of friends, but that is when you begin to learn the value of sharing your time with everyone, or others begin to feel left out. some people have a really hard time with this concept and it may take a long time to overcome the problem. its alright to tell her how you feel, but don't begin to tell her what to do, or you will end up like the other person you are talking about.you just have to be patient and see what she decideds.
-CC
ORIGINAL: daddyshuntingirl
hey how do i deal with my best friend backstabing u,your ex that u r
still friends with being a really jerk and loseing your best friend
over another best friend being to coontrolling? can you plez help me i
dont know what to do i need help Thanks
Mary Harris
hey how do i deal with my best friend backstabing u,your ex that u r
still friends with being a really jerk and loseing your best friend
over another best friend being to coontrolling? can you plez help me i
dont know what to do i need help Thanks
Mary Harris
- call them on it, if they say they didn't do it and you know for an absolute fact that they did, then they are lying to you, and best friends don't do that so therefore she isn't being a true best friend. tell her you know what they said/did for a fact explain it to them, and you can usually tell from their reaction whether they are guilty or not.
-if you don't know for an absolute fact that they did it, give them the benifit of the doubt, after all you are calling them your best friend, so just ask them about but don't accuse. accusing is the worst thing you can do if your not absolutely sure about something. because if your wrong, your going to hurt them and your going to get hurt in the end too.
2) Ex bf being a jerk when you are supposed to be friends
-ignore him. respond as little as possible to him. don't call him let him call you. if he was being a jerk that day and he calls you, tell him you are busy and can't talk. if you ignore him, he will want to talk more. or you guys will slowly become separated and slowly make other friends, which as bad as it sounds might be a good thing in the end.
3)Losing a best friend over one thats being controlling
- If they are trulyyour best friend, they will know where to draw the line with the other person. Its great to have a bunch of friends, but that is when you begin to learn the value of sharing your time with everyone, or others begin to feel left out. some people have a really hard time with this concept and it may take a long time to overcome the problem. its alright to tell her how you feel, but don't begin to tell her what to do, or you will end up like the other person you are talking about.you just have to be patient and see what she decideds.
-CC
04-18-2008, 08:58 AM
#15
Nontypical Buck
Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: oxford county, maine
Posts: 2,206
RE: I need Help agian lol
that was deep dr. phil. hahhaa can you help me, i came home drunk, my g/f slept on the couch and my neighbors preggers and we dont know if its mine or the shwans mans?? what do i do?!!
04-18-2008, 10:08 AM
#16
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: Norwalk, Ohio
Posts: 4,443
RE: I need Help agian lol
ORIGINAL: skybuster20ga
that was deep dr. phil. hahhaa can you help me, i came home drunk, my g/f slept on the couch and my neighbors preggers and we dont know if its mine or the shwans mans?? what do i do?!!
that was deep dr. phil. hahhaa can you help me, i came home drunk, my g/f slept on the couch and my neighbors preggers and we dont know if its mine or the shwans mans?? what do i do?!!
04-18-2008, 10:18 AM
#17
Nontypical Buck
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Illinois
Posts: 2,466
RE: I need Help agian lol
ORIGINAL: AmateurHunter44857
Run Away and never come back
ORIGINAL: skybuster20ga
that was deep dr. phil. hahhaa can you help me, i came home drunk, my g/f slept on the couch and my neighbors preggers and we dont know if its mine or the shwans mans?? what do i do?!!
that was deep dr. phil. hahhaa can you help me, i came home drunk, my g/f slept on the couch and my neighbors preggers and we dont know if its mine or the shwans mans?? what do i do?!!
04-18-2008, 10:21 AM
#18
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: Norwalk, Ohio
Posts: 4,443
RE: I need Help agian lol
ORIGINAL: andy da animal
nobody have a one night stand with AH! [8D]
ORIGINAL: AmateurHunter44857
Run Away and never come back
ORIGINAL: skybuster20ga
that was deep dr. phil. hahhaa can you help me, i came home drunk, my g/f slept on the couch and my neighbors preggers and we dont know if its mine or the shwans mans?? what do i do?!!
that was deep dr. phil. hahhaa can you help me, i came home drunk, my g/f slept on the couch and my neighbors preggers and we dont know if its mine or the shwans mans?? what do i do?!!
