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i like two guys and i just found out one likes me but i'm kinda "talking" to one of them.....the guy i'm talking to plays drums like i do on a drumline,but goes to a diff. school but he's really fun to be around....the second guy who i just found out kinda likes me back goes to my school use to play drums with me, runs cross country, is really hot and is really sweet..........what should i do....drop the guy i'm talkin to for the hottie .....stay with the sweet and funny guy or what cause i really like both of them but i don't konw what to do!!!

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Hey Gurl! That is a problem.I would go with the one that you have more in common with, because looks aren't always everything, but then again ya know... It does make things spicy though, haha. But honestly I would go with the one that has a stronger pull on your heart. Which one do you feel the most attracted to or which one could you see yourself dating? If you are already friends you wouldn't want to possibly ruin a good friendship by dating. That is really all the advice that I can give you...so let me know how it goes! :)!

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I know i may seem shallow after this, but IF two girls liked me, one was hott, and one wasnt as pretty. I would probably take the hotter one, BUT theres a factor in it. IF the one is a very nice sweet girl and the other im just one of her little flings, well you know, i would take the sweet one, even if shes not as good looking,

But for you, if they both treat you very good, take which ever one you want.

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Date both of them. Your not married, have fun. Just be up front and after dating both you find out you like one more than the other, then dump the one your not into. Just dont let it turn into a huge ordeal, then you have problems.

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I don't know the whole situation so i couldn't say 'date him rather then the other'. My advice though, in which i agree more with hunterchick with, is you should take in consideration the things you have in common, and whether or not the friendship would be hurt if the dating didn't work. You shouldn't date more then on person at once becauseit'll make things more complexed: For example, it would bemore likely would hurt the friendship with both guys if a dating didn't work with both.As for looks, well, those aren't extremely important. Just my two cents

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Since when is this the love connection? lol but i guess i would pry advise to go with your heart. it wont lead you wrong.

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deer slayer i'm in the same senario as you. Two of my really good male friends that I like, one goes to my school the other doesnot.my friend that goes to a diff school is less atractive but he is more of a dear friend than the one I go to school with. what should I do??????:(

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id go with the guy that goes to ur school.

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why is that lordgunner? well guys (and gals)i still don't know what to do any ways you think i could try to decide??

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cnhntr,

You should go with the guy who goes to your school and is more attractive. You should because if the one who is less attractive is more of a dear friend, if things dont work out than you have lost more of a friend. So i would go with the one your not as close "friend" wise.

Mike