I need some help huntingirl89
 

Well anyone can help, but I just figured huntingirl89 has been turned down several times.;)

There is this girl at school that really likes me. She always asks me to go to a movie or to go do something over the weekend. The problem is I really don't like her. I always say that I have to work, the fire station, or hunting (I just love the 24/7 private land predator control law!). She is starting to catch on that I don't want to go anywhere with her. I don't want to just say, "I don't like you". What should I do?

RE: I need some help huntingirl89
 

Say "I don't like you."

Honesty is the best policy. It's better to be honest and hurt her feelings than to lie and make her angry.

RE: I need some help huntingirl89
 

Honesty.

RE: I need some help huntingirl89
 

Tell her the truth

RE: I need some help huntingirl89
 

But she never just comes out and says lets go to a movie. She always asks what I am doing this weekend and what movies I like. What do I say to that? I know she is trying to give me a hint.

RE: I need some help huntingirl89
 

Well if shes just giving you a hint then you really don't have to turn her down. Next time she does asks what your doing say "i'm not really sure". If she asks you to a movie I would say something like "No, I just want to stay friends" or something along the lines of that.

RE: I need some help huntingirl89
 

If it was me, I would say something along the lines "I getting your hints, you want to go to the movies with me, but Im sorry, I dont feel the same about you." but then again, thats just how I am.

RE: I need some help huntingirl89
 

Good idea. If shes just giving hints, then get her to come out and say it, so your sure. Then when your sure and she actually asks you, then you can tell her.

RE: I need some help huntingirl89
 

I'd help you but even at my ripe age of 27, i'm STILL trying to figure out women :D

RE: I need some help huntingirl89
 

Give her your buddies phone number.

RE: I need some help huntingirl89
 

i hate you.

see how simple that was??? now just say it to her but more in the terms of: "look, i know what you are trying to do and i would much rather just stay friends who don't go out together. when you mix in going out then everything gets all confusing and i just don't want that right now."

whatever you do... don't mention that theres another woman... some men try to use that excuse to get rid of a girl, but girls take it as a personal challenge... so stay away from that one

and i've only ever been turned down once... and he was married so

RE: I need some help huntingirl89
 

This forum is a little like doctor Phil....
I would tell the truth...its always easier to keep it strait and not have to worry about a lie.