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I have monitored this site for about a year & have been very pleased with the enthusiasm I see here. I am one to be more " old fashioned" in my thinking, however I believe one of the wonderful aspects of technology has been the way we can communicate with one another world wide on the internet. Message boards are a useful tool and this one is no different as it brings about a collective voice for " the deer hunter" - a brotherhood who share a fondness of the outdoors & the elusive whitetail, which is perhaps God' s most terrific creation.

One thing I' d like to discuss today is the aspect of DEMANDING RESPECT as a deer hunter. Do you DEMAND RESPECT, or do you simply go through the motions of hunting & allow other circumstances to give you a " free pass" while in the woods? If it is raining do you stay in & allow the rain to " give you an out?" If you are on stand & need to take a restroom break, do you find a suitable place in the woods or do you go back to camp & use the outhouse, allowing " mother nature" to give you an excuse for not dropping an elusive whitetail? These are questions I would like you to answer.

This fall, I will certainly DEMAND RESPECT as a deer hunter. Notice I will not ask for it, or even expect it, rather I will DEMAND IT. My methods of demanding said respect may differ from yours. I may choose to arrive to the stand & perform a ritual each time I get there - perhaps I will circle my stand backwards (after setting my gun or bow down for safety) or do a one-legged hop when I arrive to get me mentally prepared for thhe hunt. Maybe you will choose to arrive a solid 2 hours before day break to mentally prepare yourself. Both of these methods would be a way in which you can DEMND RESPECT as a deer hunter.

It is not too late to DEMAND RESPECT this very fall. Maybe your season has begun & you are thinking, " My season has started & I have yet to DEMAND RESPECT." Let me state that it is never too late. I have always been a savvy hunter, but this fall I will take it a step further. I am considering giving myself the same prep speech when I get to the top of my tree....." Sweetwater, are you prepared for this hunt? Are you going to DEMAND RESPECT, or are you going to return from this hunt weary without learning anything valuable about the life & movement of whitetails? Are you ready, Sweetwater, because these deer are ready."

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Wow, what a concept...

I don' t demand respect as a deer hunter from nature rather I give it. I have my rituals and they are between me and the woods, the trees , and most importantly the animal I am about to kill. I give everything the proper respect. Nature is the only thing in my life that gets respect simply because it is. Everyone and everything else, I prefer earn my respect. Simply put, I am here to hunt. After my family, it is so much of what makes me, me. Weather, other committments, and other intrusions become secondary because I need to hunt to feel full. I never apologize for hunting in fact I always do what I can to promote it. For example, when I coach my childrens little league teams, I always wear hunting related clothing when it is appropriate. My wife doesn' t like it but I do it for a reason. These people will eventually be making a decision that will be effecting my hunting. My thinking is, hey I' m doing good by your kids so you do good by mine support my love for hunting.

Likewise, I don' t hide from the fact that I love the kill. It is not, nor will it ever be the reason I hunt but without it, why bother. I can list the many things that I enjoy about hunting seperate from any killing. It would take pages. It is the self-control, the preparation, the minute leading up to teh shot, the reverence, the sadness, they all make this sport what it is. Practically a religion. A friend once criticized someone for shooting too many deer. They were all legally taken and used completely. I asked him why he didn' t say that about me since I shoot enough deer for me and my family to eat for a year. He told me that even though I am a meat hunter and that I kill seven or so deer a year for the fridge, I show more respect for the deer I kill than anyone he knows. Boy did it feel good that someone noticed. I can' t discount the regret about the kill and sometimes the sadnes if I have not been successful in making it quick and clean. It is, none the less, a fist pumping, teary eyed event that you have to live to understand. Now as I pass that on to my son, I suppose I will demand his respect. His respect for the animal he kills, the land he hunts on, and of the spirit of the woods. He is young so I have time to teach him. I try to remember...actions talks.

So if that is what you mean....I can respect you.

Greg

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my ritual is doing cartwheels to my stand....

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Great responses! Doing cartwheels on the way to your stand is surely a way to DEMAND RESPECT! Also, the response regarding DEMANDING RESPECT of your son' s little league parents is a great way to demand it. You wear shirts that relate to your passion & the respect is given. You did not ask them for it, but rather DEMANDED IT by your selected clothing. You also demand it by your reverence for the animal & the experience that it is.

I also have DEMANDED RESPECT in the past by saying a personal prayer over the slain animal before I take it from its home. To me, this is proper & it also has helped me to allow other folks I have introduced to hunting see what it means to a real " hunter." The experiecne, like you say, is almost religion & not in a sacreligious way at all. I feel that God has a huge part in it all - He is the reason for it all! And I thank Him for blessing me with the passion for such a prolific expereince.

I really look forward to DEMANDING RESPECT after these responses. Each of you should be commended.

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Sweetwater, I have read your post several times trying to understand the point you are attempting to convey.

I think I understand now what you are saying, But if I may, I think the word you are looking for is COMMANDING rather than DEMANDING.

Folks that demand a respect are rarely actually respected, However, those that have a commanding appearance are often respected for no other reason than they " Look" like someone who is in authority.

I think you simply used the wrong word to express what many here do on a regular basis.

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Sweetwater,

I must say I agree with Dave.

I too read your post twice and really didn' t get the feeling or emotion you may have been trying to convay.

However, " command" respect from my 100+ employees, not demand it. As too, they (my employees) ritefully command my respect.

For me when hunting I respect the wild and the deer I hunt. I dont put a game face on and fail not to blink, sleep or even releive my self off of my stand.

I simpley take in all the glory of my surrounding that the good Lord has created and try my best to be part of my surroundings.

As a hunter I to take pride in my ability and rite to hunt. I also take every effort to take my game quickly and very humane.

I see your seriousness in your post I just dont see the demanding part or it.

I did not work my way up the hunting ladder to be a deer hunter, so to speak, so I demand nothing, other than demanding that I my self enjoy my hunt with safety in mind and to take a good harvest.

The best of luck to you this season!:)

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im not sure what your getting at....like weekend warrior-diehard type thing? weekend warrior hunting opening day and maybe a weekend or something like that not really out to do much hunting...or the die hard.out rain or shine doing what it takes to bag the animal he or she wants.....im alot closer to a diehard....ive been scouting every week since the end of august now...i didnt think fall would ever get here....i put alot of time into my deer...it always pays off....it takes patience and alot of thinkgs normal people wont do....sitting in freezing rain for hours on end....sitting in snow like its your own little igloo making sure you freeze....and if i gota go i let it fly...thats the only way to bag the deer you WANT to bag....but if your out there just to be out there to get away for a change i can see why you wouldnt freeze and suffer ect ect for nothing.....the kill is always a nice reward to all my hard work..but i dont DEMAND it....theres days i freeze all day and dont see anything....i still walk out smiling and me and dad sitll eat lunch or dinner laughing and having a great time....i love to hunt period....taking game is just a sweet reward...i mean if i NEVER bagged anything i probally wouldnt hunt....id still be in the woods...i love it out there...theres no place i rather be....the sights..sounds..smells ect are just so great in the woods.....i live for it....

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Demand respect from who/what? I sit in a stand in solitude. Who is there to demand this respect from in the first place? The animals? I dont think they give a damn about ANY of us one way or the other, regardless of whether we are there to hunt deer, ducks, turkeys whatever. They are in no way " impressed" by our stature, experience, prowess or previous records!

lmao Sweet is that kinda your take on it? :D:D:D
RA

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Maybe I' m not understanding your message completely, Sweetwater... I was raised that you give respect to mother nature for she can be an awesome force. And to the plants and animals for without them we could not exist. Personally I don' t respect a person that demands it nor do I demand it from anyone either.....Respect has to be earned. Like I said, I may have misinterpreted your meaning and don' t mean to pee in anyone' s cherios. Just my thought of your post. :D

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Interesting post, but I don' t get it. DEMAND RESPECT from whom?

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Sweetwater like others I am confused about where you are going with this. To me there are three types of respect:

1. Respect given This to me is the most important form of respect any one should have, I give respect to God, mother nature, my elders, my coworkers, and everyone else unless they prove they do not deserve respect. This type of respect gets you respect type #2.

2. Earned respect What I mean by this and I am sure you know people who have earned your respect as I have, is people that through their actions and beleifs have earned your respect whether you know them or not. To me if you have earned someones respect for anything you are a pretty good person and an example to be followed.

3. Demanded respect This to me is only used by parents or in some cases the military or penal system. This is a method of teaching someone who has no respect what respect is. To me this type of respect is the last one you want to have from some one. This is an important thing a parent to demand from their children because once they learn respect and to give it they to will earn respect. Demanded respect is borderline forced respect and in reality is not respect, but fear.

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Sweetwater,


Did you fall out of a treestand and land on your head?

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I Demand you stop acting so silly.

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What exactly did you wear to a little league game? Could bew you thought you were getting respect and got the exact opposite reaction.

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Sounds to me like you DEMANDED one more for the road after the last call:D

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I love this thread. The confusion and responses are great!:D

I simply wear something camo to practice or a deer hunting shirt that says fear no deer. Stuff like that. I' m not an activist nor am I looking for a fight. Just want people to know that nice guys who love their kids to death actually hunt and kill stuff. People who make comments do it jokingly and if they don' t they don' t seem to say anything. Just my way of keeping hunting out there.

Greg

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I usually skip through the woods swinging my arms high and fast, and periodically break out into a loud chorus of " We Will Rock You!" . The deer respect this so much, they tend to stay completely out of my way!:D;)

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That was you??? I couldn' t get that song out of my head for weeks!

Greg

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Sweetwater, lay off the amphetamines, get some sleep and lighten up. I respect you as a hunter without your DEMANDING it.;)

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lol, I like to swing from the trees like tarzan all the way to my stand. Once there I stand on the platform and yell at the top of my lungs, " Me hunter, You deer" . :D;)

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hntngirl: Thanks: the 8 point buck I shot with an Arrow was in awwww from your sweet voice. He had no idea what hit him till it was too late.

Sweetwater: You have to earn Respect....no one gives it to you and you can not demand it..You can however demand that they respect your opinion. Everyone has that right.... I do not thing that the Animals in the woods respect you intruding upon there home. They live there we do not. so respect nature as it is and be gratefull that you are allowed to be there with it.

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respect is earned not demanded

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YOU GUYS ARE KILLING ME..........LOL;):D

I DON' T THINK SWEETWATER MEANT TO OFFEND ANYONE, I JUST THINK HE IS REALLY PUMPED UP ABOUT THE UPCOMING SEASON.

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Geez I love this board! LMAO -- CDH [&:]

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HOORAH! Pump it up!:D

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Cardeer where are thou, running naked to your stand?
What a great thread.
My ritual is fairly quite going to the stand and full of respect for nature, you know a little cursing when a branch hits me in the eye or when I trip. then sometimes mother nature calls on the way in, so I sit and bugle awhile. Other than that, I practice total silence.
After the kill is a different story, first a little prayer of thanks and then a few tarzan yells and chest beatings to let the other hunters know who the mightiest of hunters is. The tarzan yells also help attract other hunters that might help me drag my deer out. Yep, I demand respect.[8D]

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SOMEONE TELL ME IS THIS GUY FOR REAL? God I pray he doesnt hunt near me

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just having a little fun trophyhuntr. I promise you, I hunt with all the seriousness and quiteness that a hunter my size can be.

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Hey rockytop HOW BOUT THEM DAWGS GO GEORGIA

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My vols are terrible, trophyhunter. We got the talent, we just can' t get it together. I think the main difference between Georgia and Tennessee is the quarter back. You got a darn good one and we got a hippie from california that' s slower than me.
Since we' re out of the way, I hope Georgia wins it all. good luck.

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I agree with the start of this thread maybe it is a bit over the top. I get a bit assertive and carry myself with more of a spring to my step.

My wife said I have been methodical and assertive way more than normal. She said stop it with the cave man mentallity. I told her when I get home from the stand my dinner should be waiting for me. (I bring breakfast to her when I come back from morning hunts)

She has witnessed many rituals, from the preseason practice, to scent control of camo and me, to the rigorous preparation and routines of me on hunting days and nights before. She looked at me like I had six heads when I sprayed my underwear and socks with scent control night before going out hunting.
I pysche myself up pretty good going to bed early, barely being able to sleep. She knows I pretty much am in the woods unless it is a downpour and that it is not negociable for the time being. That will change once we start a family. She pouts a bit and gets over it but she knows I demand this time as mine. That is part of demanding respect. Non-negociable time in the woods or as I call it " " Going into my office" Only being out one day so far I can' t wait I am cutting out of work early to get a few hours in tonight before dark.

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Wow! And you' re still alive to post today! Definitely a more controlled woman than me! LOL![:o][>:]:D

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lmao, took afternoon off to hunt and now im off to get me a little respect. you guys crack me up.

Cableguy119.....
 

***AWARD***

You obviously DEMAND RESPECT. Your post should be archived for future reference to everyone on this site.

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I am just glad that we so far live in a free country where we can own guns and go hunting when ever we feel like. If your government ever takes our guns away there will not be any point to living. " Guns dont kill people, people kill people"

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deerhunter1224 I' d rather head for the woods and never return to work.

Jason