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#3
That's right, I forgot about the little clips on the Lee website. They are as much an advertising tool as they are instructional, but they do get the point across. I think that Midway has some videos too.
#4
I used the lee website (free) when I first started to get an idea. And even youtube probably has some videos you could watch online. This will give you a general idea of steps: http://www.rcbs.com/guide/stepbystep.aspx and videos can help fill in the gray areas.
#5