Please say a prayer
03-24-2007, 04:03 AM
#21
Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: A sand pile 30 miles at sea
Posts: 125
RE: Please say a prayer
Prayer said. I look back and think man what happened with all the time. He worked to much? I didn't appreciate him enough? We've all been there. I'm glad he's still here your post makes me reflect deeply on this.
03-24-2007, 05:30 AM
#25
Join Date: Feb 2003
Location: Blissfield MI USA
Posts: 5,293
RE: Please say a prayer
Sorry for you loss. Just know that we are here if you need to talk or vent. Do it in the forums or PM someone if you have to. Heck you can email me if you want. If you want to chat let me know, I will download a messenger program, I have ID's on most of them.
[email protected]
Do what you need to do to get over or cope with this. Short of being distructive to yourself that is. Get grief counseling if you have to, sometimes it helps.
And know that it is ok to be angry, upset and pissed at the world. These are normal emotions. It is also ok to be mad at God and scream at him for taking your loved one. He will understand I promise. Also don't blame yourself, don't think it happened because of something you did, or didn't do. That will get you no where fast.
And most importantly, don't feel sorry for your dad! His suffering is over and he has moved on, let him do it in peice with your blessing. When you feel sad be sad for you and your loved ones that are still here. That is who you feel sorry for and try to help.
Best whishes, and remember we are here if you need us.
I think I will go see my dad today, it's been too long.
Paul
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Do what you need to do to get over or cope with this. Short of being distructive to yourself that is. Get grief counseling if you have to, sometimes it helps.
And know that it is ok to be angry, upset and pissed at the world. These are normal emotions. It is also ok to be mad at God and scream at him for taking your loved one. He will understand I promise. Also don't blame yourself, don't think it happened because of something you did, or didn't do. That will get you no where fast.
And most importantly, don't feel sorry for your dad! His suffering is over and he has moved on, let him do it in peice with your blessing. When you feel sad be sad for you and your loved ones that are still here. That is who you feel sorry for and try to help.
Best whishes, and remember we are here if you need us.
I think I will go see my dad today, it's been too long.
Paul
03-24-2007, 06:41 AM
#27
Giant Nontypical
Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: Michigan
Posts: 5,076
RE: Please say a prayer
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family , I know how it feels to lose a family member.
May you and your family find comfort knowing he is in a better place even though he can not be with you.
May you and your family find comfort knowing he is in a better place even though he can not be with you.
