Just wanted everyone out there to know that i won't be posting on the board for a while due to the fact that a divorce is stirring so i will be leaving my home. with it my wife and kid, a 3-year old baby boy, that i love more than anything in this world. the 12-year old is my step son who has always hated me so that part i won't miss. i will also leave her the house and it's contents, inlcuding my beloved big screen tv, my computer, my dog, and that's not all folks, a brand new pool that i just bought her and the kids this past summer. what hurts the most is the fact that i (not her and i) just remodeled the whole house and put a new roof on the place. also dug 119 post holes (by hand) for the brand new privacy fence that i installed just this past summer. it's a good thing i have a cabin close by because if not, i would be living in my truck. i mean we've had problems in the past but this comes as a complete shock to me. i know she doesn't have a boyfriend or anything, she thinks i drink too much. well maybe so but i'm not violent, verbally abusive, nothing. very mellow. i don't get drunk everyday don't get me wrong, but i do stop at the vets club after a hard days work for a few with the "boys"..............get off at five home by six. the sad part is the only thing i'll miss is seeing my son everyday when he wakes up and every night when he goes to sleep. that's gonna hurt!!!