I love the .40S&W but the 10mm is a whole differn't round. It can be loaded anywhere from .40S&W type loads to .41magnum!
Also, I think the .357sig round has the best track record for "one shot stop" %. I know Virginia state police has had 9 out of 10, 1 stop shots, or so I have heard.
It's all about where you put the bullet, then the bullet