However, 9mm isn’t perfect for every concealed carrier. Ultimately, the best concealed carry handgun is the one you can shoot proficiently and carry with confidence. For some shooters, that might be a .38 Special. Others might feel more confident with a .45 ACP in their holster.
I orginally remarked on this, but decided it would be better to send a PM to the OP.
I do think the statement is worth reading.